OKAMOTO SHIHAN SEMINAR 2025

Okamoto sensei was in San Francisco for the January seminar which, historically, was the time Yamada sensei made his annual visit. It was a well-attended seminar with instructors from Mexico City and Montreal in attendance.

Mike Napoli, Russ Gorman, Oscar Johnson and I represented Portland Aikikai.

Okamoto sensei focused on connection and presented very few techniques – showing just gyaku and morote dori kokyu-ho, ai-hanmi katate-dori and shomen-uchi irimi-nage, ikkyo and shihonage.

Connection is challenging to establish, so she presented most of the exercises from a static grab in order to draw out a balanced commitment to the encounters. Starting from static eliminates the complication of timing and enhances the ability to work on appropriate responses from uke.

She was critical of hyper-responsive ukeme – ukeme where uke exaggerated the movement which nage was impelling. She did not explain in thus, but the difference she was driving to is the difference between a reflex, a choreographed (trained) response, and a correct response. (I have called exaggerated ukeme an artifact of training.) The levels of understanding are reflective of the shu/ha/ri levels of training. A reflexive response is precisely what most martial art techniques rely upon – essentially a technique is a trick that exploits a reflexive response. In the dojo we quickly replace reflexive techniques with a trained response by teaching what is essentially choreography. Unfortunately, humans like drama, and dramatic ukeme is visually compelling. Most people enjoy the exaggerated responses precisely because the movements are large, easily seen and exciting.

Okamoto sensei tried to tone-down the responses in order to draw out a correct response. Equal energetic response based on input from nage and the corresponding output from uke. She used the example of two people hands together leaning into one another to demonstrate the principle. Nage does not pull uke and uke cannot lean upon nage. Neither party should be reliant upon the other for the structure of the encounter.

Which leads to the concept of “axis.” While nage must remain centered about his own axis – the line from the center of the head, through the core, and between the distributed weight of the legs – and has the goal of disrupting uke’s axis (balance and, specifically, spinal alignment), the primary way Okamoto uses the term is to describe the axis of the encounter, which is the moment of the initial encounter between nage and uke. This is the most interesting point in time because it is pregnant with possibilities.

Starting from gyaku hanmi, Okamoto sensei demonstrated two potential response, a full blend (tenkan) and a driving re-direct (irimi). Both and either should be available from the first moment of contact and nage needs to learn how to determine which is necessary from the moment of first touch. Sensitivity to uke’s grab and energetic input drives the possibilities, not nage’s expectations of a result. However, for Aikdo training to be productive, uke must present a genuine intention – provide an input that is combatively viable.

Therefore, Okamoto sensei reminded us that a grab must have a vector that is toward nage’s center with a goal to control the grabbed arm. Too much pressure in any other vector and nage should simply escape and riposte. She physically demonstrated this by slapping, or hitting ukes who were out of position or over-zealous with an imbalanced attack. I have shown this by using rebouding strikes and half-beats, and arts like Kenpo explicitly use them to advantage.

Critically, the balanced approach to the initial encounter among nage and uke is what defines the axis of the encounter. This axis is what nage must move around with minimal disruptive movement so as not to disturb uke’s initial intention. With a more combat-efficacious description, nage must not telegraph their intent so the initial grab is the point suspended in space as “bait” while nage moves to a tactically superior position.

Shihonage provides a difficult, but clear example of this principle.

Starting from gyaku hanmi, nage moves obliquely approximately 33-degrees off the line of original approach while dropping the grabbed hand down along the vertical axis of the encounter. The reason is to absorb and redirect uke’s original intention – simultaneously dropping uke’s center down. Uke’s trained response will be to keep the grabbing arm extended, maintain a firm contact with the hand, and soften the knees to lower their center. Nage then shifts slightly back while keeping the grabbed arm extended which allows uke to start to come vertical again, which provides the invitation for nage to continue to raise the extended arm vertically up the axis to nage’s natural full extent (shikko) while moving under the axis of the encounter to perform a turn, then cut for the throw. This requires a high level of trained sensitivity from both players because it requires continuous monitoring of intention/connection from each throughout the entire movement. It is far easier to perform a simple “bone-lock” throw.

Okamoto’s Aikido moves beyond simple efficacity as a goal. But it is based on highly pragmatic principles. Hence her use of the shyuto.

I suspect few people appreciated her use of the tanto to illustrate what the shyuto is. She used the tanto as an attempt to show the seriousness of ai-hanmi irimi-nage as a martial encounter. She used a tanto to illustrate how nage’s grabbed hand needs to be perceived by uke and used by nage. Most uke’s grab the hand blithely and most nage’s use the grabbed hand merely as a vehicle for the arm to pull or off-balance uke using gross body movements – explosively getting behind uke and essentially making it a pure momentum throw. This is not the higher-level training she was illustrating.

The shyuto is the knife-hand. The base of the hand to the tip of the little finger is the cutting edge. Therefore the angle which nage presents demands the seriousness of a knife, and the hand must be used as a knife, not merely as the terminal point of the arm.

As uke grabs, Okamoto sensei explicitly used the inward camming of the shyuto to force uke’s elbow to pronate to uke’s interior. I call this bone-locking when done as a gross body movement, but in her presentation, it is a survival response. If uke fails to keep the shyuto away from their center, the knife edge explicitly targets their neck.

Okamoto sensei does not use graphically explicit language, but don’t fail to see the seriousness of her intentions, lest you fail to learn the lesson!

Her use of the hand is training uke to have a correct response which then allows the encounter to flourish. As nage uses the shyuoto to threaten uke, uke keeps their hand extended (to keep the knife away) and therefore must use their body to absorb the threat. This means uke shifts backward along their original line of approach while nage enters irimi to take a position behind uke – moving around the axis of the encounter, which is the grasped hand. From that superior position (shikakku), nage can further disrupt uke’s balance by continuing to move their shyuto toward uke’s center while rotationally disrupting uke’s spinal alignment with the neck hand. Nage must be clear – this is not intended to be a pulsing energy, ideally, nage uses equal energy in both hands but with opposite vectors – like drawing a bow. As the neck hand (nage’s elbow pointing down!) creates a slight inward (toward nage’s sternum) draw, nage’s shyuto extends toward uke’s center such that there is a single line of force connecting the two points. Emphatically, this is not a “double pull” to off balance uke. While potentially efficacious, that gross muscularity of the balance destruction misses the subtlety of a weapon-based encounter.

This is a higher level of training.

As a cautionary reminder, Okamoto sensei told me, “Don’t do what I do.” Why? Because her presentations in a seminar setting are to be inspirational, they provide a picture of where the art is going, and does not reflect a means of getting there. The actual path to achieve the level of understanding is not simple replication of what we saw over the course of a long-weekend seminar. The means of achieving understanding requires time on the mat: Pounding the body and spirit to drive out impurities.

The Barker Surname

My Uncle Tony recalled that his grandmother, Lucy Burr Wadhams, thought of her husband, Dr. Abram Barker, as a “Johnny-come-lately,” a man without the deep historical connection to America (and Goshen specifically) of her lineage.

Newcomers from England – John and Margaret Barker

She was not wrong. The Wadhams had been in Connecticut for generations. Abram Barker had been born in Maine as the son of English immigrants. Measured agaisnt a family whose memory reached comfortably into colonial New England, the Barkers were newcomers.

The documentation carries the Barker family back through the industrial communities of the Upper Calder Valley in Yorkshire, and in doing so turns what was once little more than a surname into a recognizable family history: textile workers, Nonconformist chapels, migration, industrial America, and within a generation an American physician.

From Bark to Barker

My Uncle Tony mused that the family name was associated with a carnival barker, yet it seems more likely that the surname derived from OE “beorc” meaning to tan hides using tree bark, pointing to the occupational surname for tanners and bark-strippers.

That origin tells us nothing by itself about our Barkers. Occupational surnames arose independently in many places, which is precisely why the family has proved so difficult to trace. A Barker in Lincolnshire, Kent or Yorkshire need have no genealogical connection to another family of the same name.

For years I could establish the family only as far back as the early nineteenth century. Better records now allow the line to be reconstructed one generation farther.

William Barker and Mary Sutcliffe

The earliest couple I can presently document with confidence is William Barker and Mary Sutcliffe, who married at Halifax St. John the Baptist on 15 September 1818.

William Barker and Mary Sutcliffe marriage register, 1818

Their son Abraham Barker was born on 30 July 1819 and baptized on 15 September 1819 at Myrtle Grove Independent Chapel, Eastwood by Todmorden.

Abraham Barker baptism, Myrtle Grove Independent Chapel, 1819

That combination of records immediately places the family within a characteristic feature of northern English life. William and Mary married through the established parish system, while their child was baptized in an Independent chapel.

The religious implications deserve their own treatment. For present purposes, the important point is geographic. By 1819 the family was firmly rooted in the communities around Todmorden and Stansfield, on the Lancashire–Yorkshire border in the Upper Calder Valley.

Todmorden is therefore no longer merely a candidate for the Barker homeland. It is the earliest securely documented center of this branch of the family.

Todmorden 1843
Abraham Barker and Betty Howarth

On 1 April 1839, Abraham Barker married Betty Howarth.

The original marriage register is unusually useful because it records occupations and fathers. Abraham, twenty, was a weaver, son of Jacob Barker, weaver. Betty, also twenty, was a weaver, daughter of James Howarth, weaver.

Abraham Barker and Betty Howarth marriage register, 1839

There is very little ambiguity about the family’s economic world. They were textile workers in one of the landscapes being transformed most profoundly by the Industrial Revolution.

The 1841 census finds Abraham and Betty at Rake, Stansfield, with an infant son, Jacob Barker.

1841 census, Rake

Ten years later the 1851 census places the family at Gate Bottom. Abraham, now thirty-two, is recorded as a twister. Betty is thirty-one. Their children include Jacob, age ten; Susan, age five; and John, age two.

1851 census, Gate Bottom

That last detail matters because later American records complicate Jacob’s name. The English census makes clear that Jacob and John were separate sons.

Jacob Barker and the Atlantic Problem

In 1861, a twenty-year-old Jacob Barker appears at Black Rock, Stansfield, now married and working as a power-loom cotton weaver. His wife, recorded as Mary, was seventeen and employed in the same trade.

1861 census, Jacob and Mary Barker, Black Rock

The progression is compelling: 1841 Jacob, infant; 1851 Jacob, age ten; 1861 Jacob, age twenty. The geography barely changes. Neither does the family’s relationship to textiles. And then the English trail stops and the family reappears across the Atlantic.

The 1870 United States census in Connecticut records an English-born Jacob Barker, about twenty-nine, with an English-born wife Margaret and Maine-born children, including two-year-old Abram Barker.

1870 census, Jacob and Margaret Barker household

This is the household from which my great-grandfather, Dr. Abram James Barker, emerges.

There is an unresolved genealogical challenge. The Jacob documented in England in 1861 has a wife called Mary. The Jacob documented in America in 1870 has a wife called Margaret.

They may be the same woman using different given names. Jacob may have remarried. The balance of evidence currently favors continuity: the age, English birth, chronology, family tradition, geography and textile occupation all fit remarkably well. But the transatlantic identification has not yet produced the one document I would like to have. I have yet to locate a passenger record, marriage, naturalization document or other record explicitly tying the English Jacob to the American family.

Margaret E. Ridley, or Riddle

The identity of Jacob’s American wife is considerably firmer.

Family records name her Margaret E. Ridley, and the documentary evidence now independently confirms a woman of approximately the correct age and origin.

Margaret E. Barker died in Philadelphia on 25 October 1911. Her death record gives her birth as 5 November 1840 in England, identifies her father as A. Riddle, and her mother as M. Howarth.

Margaret E. Barker death record, Philadelphia, 1911

The Ridley/Riddle variation is unsurprising in handwritten nineteenth-century records. Far more persuasive is what happens when this record is compared with the Wadhams family diary.

On Wednesday, October 25, Mary Pelton Wadhams wrote that “Mother Barker had died at 1 o’clock that morning.” On the following day she recorded that Dr. Barker went to Philadelphia on the early train. The Philadelphia record gives Margaret Barker’s death on precisely that date and records that her remains were sent to Torrington, Connecticut.

This is one of those satisfying moments in family research when an impersonal public record and an intimate family record suddenly describe the same event from opposite sides.

From Cotton to Silk

By 1880, the family was living in Paterson, New Jersey. The census identifies the household head as John J. Barker, thirty-nine, born in England, and employed as a silk picker. His household includes Abram Barker, age twelve, born in Maine.

1880 census, John J. Barker household, Paterson

The age progression from the 1870 household is excellent: Jacob Barker, 29 → John J. Barker, 39 and Abram Barker, 2 → Abram Barker, 12. This makes it highly probable that Jacob and John J. were the same man and helps explain the later family use of John Jacob Barker.

More interesting to me is the occupation continuity, the line runs:

Abraham Barker — weaver and twister
Jacob Barker — power-loom cotton weaver while in England, and when he comes to America as:
John J. Barker — silk worker in Paterson in America

If Jacob and John J. are indeed the same man, immigration was an economic transplantation. The Barker family moved from one of Britain’s great textile regions into the developing textile economy of the northeastern United States.

Abram James Barker

The break occurs with the next generation.

Abram James Barker was born at Lisbon Falls, Maine, on 2 January 1868. By family account he received relatively little formal schooling before finding employment tending a physician’s horse, an accident of circumstance that eventually led to medical training. That part of the story still deserves additional documentary work, but what followed is much better established.

Abram became a physician.

He met Lucy Burr Wadhams, and on 28 October 1902 Connecticut records show their marriage in Torrington. By the 1910 census, Abram was forty-two, living in Torrington with Lucy and their sons and practicing as a physician.

1910 census, Abram J. Barker household

The transformation over three generations is Yorkshire weaver → immigrant textile worker → Maine-born physician.

The Griffins in the Room

Ironically, none of this is why I started researching the Barkers.

My original objective was much less ambitious. I wanted to determine which, if any, Barker coat of arms could legitimately be used on signet rings I planned to give my sons.

That led directly into the swamp of heraldic genealogy.

Todmorden, England appears to be the family omphalos. Geographically situated northeast of Manchester and southwest of Leeds.

While I can establish that the male line is rooted in the Todmorden/Calder Valley by early 1800s I have yet to trace it backward in parish and nonconformist registers to locate a prior county of origin. However, the Barker of Holbeach and Barker of Todmorden lines are separated by distance but not by implausible migration patterns.

There is no documented genealogical connection between the Todmorden Barkers and the Barker families of Holbeach or Great Steeping. They are simply geographic candidates.

Arthur Roland Maddison (1843-1912) collected and edited the Lincolnshire Pedigrees and recorded the Barker line of Great Steeping:

pp 82-83

The Great Steeping pedigree’s statement of Derbyshire origin provides a credible bridge county. A two-generation relocation westward, fueled by trade, dissent, and industry, could plausibly produce the Todmorden line. Pending corroboration via parish and legal records, the linkage remains unproven but historically possible. However, there is no record of such a migration, and occupational Barkers are extremely common across the Midlands and North.

The Ogilby and Moll maps (1675–1724) show a continuous roadway linking Lincolnshire market towns to the Pennine valleys through Derbyshire. This east–west road system became the artery for craft and trade migration.

Great Steeping, 25 miles northeast of Holbeach, confirms that multiple Barker lines occupied the Lincolnshire fenland by the 17th century, one claiming descent from Derbyshire. This descent gives geographic plausibility to a Barker migration from the midlands into Todmorden’s textile region two centuries later. The Holbeach → Todmorden vector thus serves as the evidentiary spine for reconstructing a potential lineage, situating my ancestors within a realistic historical migration path.

The Grantees of Arms lists several Barker lines

And Burke’s General Armory provides the blazon/motto citation:

My goal in researching the Barker lineage was to establish which crest should be used on signet rings which I planned as a family Christmas gift for each of us.

I cannot prove to be of an armigerous family with a coat-of-arms but as a convenience the Barkers of Holbeach appear to be the most geographically proximate lineage. And this was fortuitous. The crest is a griffin out of a ducal coronet and, more poignantly, the family motto is Fide Sed Cui Vide (Trust, but in whom take care) – a wonderful coincidence given my oft-used quip, “trust but verify!”

I take that coincidence as evidence of genetic disposition – thus providing provenance.

This particular image does not belong to any verifiable Barker lineage in the College of Arms, Lyon Court, or Ulster’s Office:

House of Names

It is a composite, commercial design made from: a Suffolk lion; a Kent/Lancashire fleur-de-lis motif; a modified Holbeach griffin, and the Holbeach motto. No single historical Barker family used this combination.

All this to justify the use of the griffin on a signet ring. A signet ring to evidence the bond we share as immediate family members.

And a longer connection to those ancestors (barely remembered) who preceded us. I hope my boys eventually find the ancestral connections meaningful.

Sons of the American Revolution

Joseph Eggleston was a soldier in the American Revolution who appears to have served for a total of nine days from September 6, 1781 only to be discharged on September 15, 1781.

His mustering onto the roll is recorded as starting in 1774 in Rev. Samule Orcutt’s (1878) History of Torrington, Connecticut from Its First Settlement in 1737, with Biographies and Genealogies:

But the details of any engagement by the 17th Regiment, Company 5 are difficult to find. Lt. Colonel Canfield appears to have been assigned to West Point in 1781.

Despite the thin service record, the lineage was established and used by my paternal uncle Fred for his application. Mine followed the same genealogical connections and I used it to establish membership for my sons as well.

The official Certificate of Membership:

Membership Numbers

Using Joseph Eggleston as the ancestor was the path of least resistance – but additional ancestors also served. On my maternal side, both Caleb Taft (SAR Patriot #P-301378) and his nephew Bazaleel Taft (Bazaliel/Bezaleel SAR Patriot #P-301376) served.

Seth Wadham(s) is another viable ancestor, and he provided material aid to support the war effort.

My sons are marginally interested in their connection to history: youthful presentism. Their mediocre public school education didn’t help. Current curriculum fails to underscore the importance of the Revolutionary War. The Declaration of Independence provided the moral and intellectual justification for all the subsequent independence movements and the military victory was proof of concept.

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King George III famously wrote “America is lost!” at the conclusion of the war. An analysis of the passage he scribed, largely based on a published essay by Arthur Young is found >here< (by Angel Luke O’Donnell).